1. Intro

I’m sure that you’ve all read my post on how to steal someone’s girlfriend, and now it’s time to flip it to the other side. In this post, you’ll see how to keep your girlfriend. I’ve had a lot of girlfriends, and I’ve never had one leave me, never to return. Every single girl has either come back, stalked me, or finally left when they got the message that they were never going to be with me. And like the post on how to steal someone’s girlfriend, this one is also Machiavellian in nature:

2. Make Her Feel Needed

You may not need her, but the instant she feels like she isn’t needed, a woman will turn to someone who needs her help. Women by nature, all want to be mother-like; feel like they are needed. And notice that I didn’t say be needy, as in needing her constant attention. I said make her feel needed, as in give her an important role to play. All of my women know that I am very emotionally cold towards people, and they fill the role of being that person that I can share my true emotions with. I also keep my women busy with little tasks that I need done. There’s no reason to drag on, but make sure that you give her some responsibility for your well-being. If a woman feels like she isn’t needed, she will leave and find someone to give her love to. The above is why so many women grow bored and leave their husbands that are never around. It’s a lot harder to leave someone who needs you. In fact, this isn’t just the trait of a woman. If a woman is just sex to a guy, he’ll drop her on a dime, but if it’s his wife that may be dependant upon him, he’s more likely to stay, even if he cheats.

3. Keep Her Dependant On You

You may only be giving her the illusion that you need her, but make sure that she needs you. Most guys do this financially. If a man is smart, he would never get married and he’d avoid having children. As long as he can keep that up, a woman that is financially dependant upon him will never leave and is less likely to cheat, in fear of being thrown out on the streets. This is why if you want a permanent woman, you need to get one that has a lower financial status of that of yourself, and then get her accustomed to the more rewarding lifestyle. And keeping a woman financially dependant isn’t the only way to do so. Personally, I prefer to go after women that have no, or very boring lives. I then take them out for the most excitement they ever will have. And if I leave? Then it’s back to their boring old lives of no laughter, no exciting sex (in public, hah), and no random nights of fun. Give them a new exciting lifestyle, and they’ll be reluctant to give it up. To summarize, find a hole in their personality or lifestyle, and fill that hole. Once they become addicted to having that hole filled, especially if it’s a huge hole, they will do anything to keep that addiction satisfied.

4 Ignore Her, Don’t Argue

This is known as “stonewalling”. When a woman wants to argue or attack you, completely ignore her. It will eat away at her skin. I am known to do this. Why? Because it works. Sooner or later, they get their attitude together, and come to their senses. When a girl wants to leave me? I ignore her. I don’t call, I don’t ask about her, and I don’t try to keep her. And guess what? It drives them crazy and they come crawling back. There’s nothing that will eat away at someone’s ego more than making them feel irrelevant and not worth the time of arguing with.

5. Keep Her Jealous

I’m not saying that you should cheat on her, because I wouldn’t cheat on a woman that I am in a serious relationship with, but what I will do, is keep her jealous. I openly flirt with other girls, just as a reminder that I am a guy worth having, and that other women do in fact, want me. Women want who all of the other women want, and when she realizes that no other woman wants you, then guess what? Her eyes will start to wonder towards a shinier guy. Women will tell you that you shouldn’t do this, but it is what it is. You have to constantly be a guy that is wanted, and the only way to do this is to openly flirt with other women and keep them clamoring for a guy like you.

6. Never Back Down

Never back down from her, and most importantly, never back down from another guy, at least not in front of her. Each time a woman challenges you, and you don’t put her in her place, she loses respect for you. And if you’re with her and you back down from a guy that challenges you or disrespects her, you lose A LOT of respect from her. Even if it means getting your ass kicked, fight. Never forget that women want to be with men that know how to take charge and are in control. When she begins to sense weakness in your ability to protect her, she will begin to contemplate leaving you. I always put other men in their place when they attempt to disrespect my women, even if he is a good friend. And I’m not subtle about it. If a guy says something disrespectful I will flat out tell him to never say it again. And in some cases, I will even make men apologize to her or face the repercussions.

7. Get Rid Of All Threats

This is sooooooooooo important. If her friends are whores and sluts, then it will only be a matter of time until she cheats on you. In this case, you should do exactly as women do, get rid of her friends if they are threatening. Women will not hesitate to get rid of a guy’s player friends one by one, and you should do the same. And you do this by setting up a conspiracy about how said girl is out to get her and is using her, etc. Sooner or later, they’ll turn against each other. And lastly, I’ll let you guys in on something that I learned from my mother. She’s been with my step-father for 25 years, and as my mom likes to say about our household: “No Bitches”. What this means, is that she does not allow in women that are not family members or VERY close friends of the family that we‘ve known for years. This eliminates the threat before it occurs. You’ll find that most cheating occurs when there are constantly opportunities to do so with people that are just “friends” or “associates”. How many times have affairs and cheating started with the line “(s)he’s just a friend.”? Yeah, don’t fall for that. Even if he is just a friend now, nothing guarantees that he will be later. I know this because I have been with women that I started out as “just friends” with. And these girls weren’t whores, they were perfect “princesses“. I have a very similar policy as my mother‘s. If I am with a girl, then there will be no alone time with a guy who is “just a friend”. A group? OK. But not by yourself. And if I’m living with a girl and we‘re serious, then she can forget about having ANY male friends, or as I like to say “No Niggas”. The only males she can have around are family members. Period. She’s not even allowed to talk to my male friends without me around. She doesn’t need his number and he doesn’t need hers. Eliminate the problem before it occurs.